If You Want To Fly High, Don't Think Who Is Blocking The Road

 If You Want To Fly High, Don't Think Who Is Blocking The Road

If you want to fly high, why are you looking at the road?

The sky has no traffic jams. The sky has no roadblocks. The sky has no people standing in your way saying "you can't go".

But we still stand on the ground, looking at the road, and complaining.

"He is stopping me."

"She talked behind my back."

"My family didn't support me."

"Society will not allow it."

We waste our whole life watching the road, when we were born to fly.

 1. The Road Is For Walking, Sky Is For Flying

People on the road will always block you. That is their job. They are walking. They will compete for the same small space.

When you decide to fly, you are no longer in competition. No one can block the sky. There is enough space for everyone to fly high.

The eagle doesn't fight with hens on the road. It just flies.

 2. The More You Look At Blockers, The Lower You Stay

You become what you focus on.

If you focus on who is blocking you, you will always feel blocked.

If you focus on how high you want to go, you will find a way to go high.

Stop asking "WHO is stopping me?"

Start asking "HOW high do I want to go?"

Your enemy is not a person. Your enemy is your focus on that person.

 3. Roadblocks Cannot Stop A Person Who Decided To Fly

Think about it.

Can a speed breaker stop an airplane?

Can a closed gate stop a bird?

No.

Your degree, your startup, your dream, your fitness - if you are truly ready to fly high, no uncle, no friend, no colleague can stop you. They can only stop you if you are still walking on their road.

*So what to do?*

*Stop explaining.* Don't explain to people why you want to fly. Just fly. They will see you.

*Stop waiting.* Don't wait for the road to be clear. The road will never be clear. Take off from where you are.

*Stop carrying weight.* Anger, revenge, jealousy - these are heavy stones in your bag. You can't fly high with heavy bags. Drop them.

Today, close your eyes and ask yourself:

Am I spending my time looking at the roadblock, or am I learning how to fly?

Because the truth is -

*Those who want to walk, keep finding blocked roads.*

*Those who want to fly, make their own sky.*

So spread your wings. The sky is waiting.

                                                                                                                                           - Mr.Nothing

If Pain Peels, Only Nature Can Heal You

 *If Pain Peels, Only Nature Can Heal You*

There comes a point in life when pain doesn't just hurt. It peels.

It peels your confidence, your sleep, your smile. Layer by layer, it takes away the person you thought you were. And no matter how many people you talk to, how many notifications you scroll, how many promises you hear about quick money and quick fixes - nothing sticks. Because when the peeling is deep, only something deeper can heal.

And that is nature.

*1. Nature Doesn't Judge Your Peeling*

When you are in pain, people ask, "What happened? Why are you like this? When will you be okay?"

Nature asks nothing.

A tree that is shedding its bark doesn't explain itself to the forest. It just stands there in the mist and lets the wind take what needs to go. Like that tree, you don't have to explain your pain to everyone. You just need a place where you can shed without being judged.

Sit under a tree. Sit near water. Sit with your feet in the soil. Nature will not say "be strong". It will simply let you be weak until you are strong again.

*2. Nature Heals Slowly, And That Is Why It Lasts*

We live in a world of 20-month chits that promise to double money. We want pain to go in 20 days. But real healing is not a chit fund. It has no kasir commission, no shortcut.

A peeled wound needs sunlight, air, time. You cannot rush it.

The morning light coming through leaves, the sound of coconuts falling, the cold water on your face in Tangutur - these small things do what no medicine can. They tell your nervous system, "You are safe. You can grow again."

That is why a 10-minute walk in a field heals more than 10 hours of overthinking in a room.

*3. You Are Also Nature*

We forget this. We think we are separate from nature. We are not.

Your skin peels and renews every 27 days. Your mind also does. Pain peels you because you were meant to renew.

Just like a forest after a fire looks black and dead, but inside, seeds are already cracking open. You are that forest. The peeling is not the end. It is the making of new bark. Tougher, thicker, more alive.

So if you are hurting right now, don't run to noise. Run to nature.

Put your phone away for one evening. Go to a coconut grove, a paddy field, a beach. Don't take photos. Just breathe. Let the air touch the part of you that is peeling.

Because people can distract you from pain, money can hide pain, but only nature can heal it. It peels with you, and it grows with you.

*You will heal. Not because you forced yourself to. But because you finally let yourself be held by something bigger than your pain.*

                                                              ALL THE BEST 

                                                                                                                                                 -Mr.Nothing.